Yes. As a BL noob myself, I say: Give the noobs a break. BL is confusing for first-timers to buy on. I recently saw one BL seller clearly explain it in his flash page, or maybe under shipping policy, something to the effect of: "If you (as a buyer) are concerned about shipping cost, please place the items in your basket, and then click Request a Quote. I will provide you with an accurate quote including shipping, usually within 24 hours. At that point you can place the order, or not. It is much easier than placing the order, getting the invoice, then cancelling the order..." Until I saw it spelled out by this seller, I didn't know this was an option.