Went on this thread out of curiosity and wanted to put contribute some thoughts:
Back then there were two sets I really wanted but never got. The launch command space shuttle from 1995 and Fort Legoredo. For the first one, it was retired long before I knew about Legos so I just got over it. For Fort Legoredo, I was at the store, wanting it, but we weren't well off (we're immigrants) so a $100 set was truly luxurious. I waited a year, saving up birthday and new years money from family to get it for myself. By then the set was gone. So you know what happened? I got over it and went on with life.
Now I have a job and a sidejob from selling legos. Just from Lego selling, my net profit is over 5g. I could easily buy those sets at secondary prices and would have no problem about it. Heck, I'm actually thankful that there were some people out there who had the foresight to keep/preserve those sets for me if I ever decided to buy them.
My point is, I've been "that kid" who couldn't get the set I wanted but I got over it. Either by resellers or by financial reasons, if a kid can't get a pricey Lego set, I'm sure they'll get over it. I'm pretty sure it was a good thing I didn't get it because I used that time to go outside to play instead.
As a reseller, business is business. I'm on this site for one reason - to make extra cash so I can take more vacations, spend more time and $$ on family. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, so my opinion is that Lego (especially the higher priced sets) is more of a commodity like stocks than a toy because its mostly adults who are doing the buying/selling.