I need to just vent some sadness and this forum feels better than any other due to the kindness and true care that each of you have for one another.  I'm newer here but come here more often than any other forum out there.

Today I learned of a car accident that occurred yesterday and unfortunately took the life of one of my best friends; his wife, whom I also consider one of my best friends, is fighting for her life in critical condition.  These two were awesome and cared for others before themselves in nearly every situation.  It's a shame that bad things like this occur. I don't think I've been this devastated before and not to put other people I've known who have passed above others, but these two were different and made my life and all those around them, not just "that much better" but incredibly better. Hug and kiss your kids, family and friends.  As always, life is too short.

Everyone, I am closing down this thread.  Please feel free to carry on the conversation in a PM.  If anyone ever needs to chat with someone, feel free to message me.