That's where I saw it, thanks. That Haitian segment so pissed me off. I absolutely agree with this. What I don't get is, if you need to feed your family, put a roof over your head, why won't you do any type of work that pays? And subsequently, if you're going to do something, why not do it well? take pride in knowing you did a good job even if it's for a crappy job? It's something I get to see in my own family. My brother-in-law is 30, lives at home, delivers pizzas. He's bounced around with those kinds of jobs for years (IKEA, Target, Sbux). Doesn't have a lot of drive to get out of the house on his own. Flunked out of college twice. Started another degree at Devry, couldn't be bothered to finish, or take the certification test for network admin. Doesn't know what he wants to do. His parents basically bailed him out of the college thing, was letting him stay home without a plan, rent-free (they don't have a basement, otherwise, that's where he'd be). He drives a beat up lexus, because it's a lexus, even though he could've bought something cheaper/more reliable. Doesn't take a job pushing carts at Costco, because even though it pays $14/hr, it's beneath him to do that. Meanwhile my husband got kicked out at 16 for breaking the rules, put himself through college, and now has a successful career and gets to invest in lego on the side. They're just 4 years apart, but their parents raised each just enough differently that they're outcomes are significantly different. There's personality at play as well, so it's not all on my in-laws. My husband just summed it up as 'He wants a champagne life on a minimum wage job, while I want a practical life, on a champagne income'.