I don't see "edit" button for the 1st post to change it for "male/female"
Mine is a little older then your youngest. I'm still afraid to let her get around LEGOs, 'cause she puts everything into her mouth...
Funny enough I wanted a boy so we would play LEGO (not Friends), toy soldiers, cars etc together (yes, I like those and always hated dolls) . So far so good, small anymals and cars are her favourites.
About myself:
1. female,
2. mid 30s
3. Creator (houses), castle, city, may be POTC (ships).
4. I guess I'm still trying to get comfortable with all current themes. I'm just now getting into LEGO after a looong time I "forgot" about it. Shame, I know ) For some reason I don't really get the playability of movie-based themes, I just see them as great displays... Well, guess my kid will have to pick among those and show me how
5. So far so good, I intend to buy what I like when I see a good deal, later on my kid will decide.